Ok, so, I've know that I was interested in guys since I was little. I'm 24 now, and I've seen a lot of guys with their clothes off and had sex with more than a few so I like to think I know what I'm talking about when I say this.
If you think you're fat. If you think you're ugly, If you think nobody likes you, if think nobody is interested in sex or a relationship with, if you think your dick isn't big enough then you need to open your eyes.
I'm a horny fuck. When I first made this forum account, very very first place I went was the 'Show your little buddy' thread. What I was expecting is not what I got. Holy shit. Out of everyone on YRH, I've seen cock from 93 of you. 93! Do you know how many of those dicks were a 'Yespleasedowantrightnow'? 91. That's amazing.
Now, I'm going to put this very simply. If you think you're not attractive, you're probably wrong.
There are a few myths out there that people seem to latch onto.
If I don't have washboard abs then that means I'm fat FALSE. - There is a certain weight you should be for your height. Some of us aren't there and what's good is really, circumstantial. Take me for instance. I'm 6'1 and about 140 Lbs. I'm 40 Lbs UNDERweight. Not on purpose, mind. Stupidly fast metabolism. Is that good? No, It's really not healthy, but pros and cons to everything. Pro. I'm nice to look at from a distance. Con, All bone makes me uncomfortable to cuddle with. Personally, I prefer a guy who doesn't look completely emaciated. Most of the guys I've seen here don't qualify as fat. Fat is NOT where you could drop five pounds. No.If you're a guy who could drop five pounds, that doesn't make you fat and it doesn't make you unattractive. What you really need to do is find a way to be happy with who you are.
That's not to say we should all just take what we're dealt and roll with it. We can all look better than we do right now, that doesn't make us unattractive. In the same way that a meal can taste great but it would be even better if you add a little seasoning, that's the way most of us are. You look fine. If you want to look better, get motivated and make it happen! Go for that jog. Try out a healthier diet. Get those new pants or go for the hair dye you've been wanting to try. Make yourself happy with who you are. Get some confidence!
Nobody ever asks me out so that means I'm unpopular - Maybe that's understandable. What are the circumstances? Do you ever initiate conversation? Are you sociable? If you want an IRL date, first thing, you gotta get outside and talk to IRL people. I know plenty of guys who sit in their room on the computer all day, never talk to anyone then wonder why they don't have a boyfriend. The eligible guys don't know you exist, that's why! If you're shy and don't initiate conversation, if you're just sitting back, waiting for life to drop a boyfriend in your lap, you may be waiting a while. Take an active approach, be confident!
I'm not X inches therefore my dick is small and unattractive FALSE - Look at the top of your screen. You should see a little thing that says 'Yaoi Haven Reborn'. In case you weren't aware, Yaoi is guy on guy action. The guys here like dick. Let me say again. WE LIKE DICK. To the majority of us here, it doesn't matter if you're five inches or nine inches; it's cock so it's nice. And we all have a type. Some guys here like smaller cocks. They're not a bad thing, trust me. Most guys wish they had a bigger dick but let me tell you it can be a pain in the ass (pun intended). I am 8 1/2 inches long and thick enough that my boyfriend can only just get his fingers all the way around me. I have LITERALLY had people gag on my dick and vomit because they tried and failed to deepthroat. Try to imagine, if you will, how much of a mood killer it is to have someone puke on your cock. The twinky boys who don't get laid often that I seem to attract back away in terror when I'm hard. My dick has scared people off, also a true story. That's also really depressing. Take it from a guy who knows, an average sized dick that you can suck on without dislocating your jaw and ride without getting your colon ruptured is not a bad thing! Just have a little confidence.
See the point I'm trying to make? Most of the problems that guys have all come down to one thing. Confidence. I see it time and time again these beautiful guys who hide because they don't have confidence. It's the biggest thing holding you back. Learn to be happy with who you are and life is just better.