So, yeah, i’ve been trying Grindr, but with my age (almost 28), my weight (around 115kg) and social akwardness its been unsuccesful so far (always been the quiet type, as if some speech impediment prevents me from speaking up until someone breaks the ice, though text chat/forums is unaffected). And i kinda just want to find a good Friend With Benefits, instead of akward/dangerous one-night-stands, or maybe even find something a little romantic or long-term…? Maybe even find someone who’s a bit similarly introverted/shy?
So, anyone know a good site/app to find that, or even just one to find people interested in sex but who are also patient enough to get to know the other person a little before inviting/visiting a total stranger? I live in the Netherlands (and in a boring part called Almelo, no less), so alot of ideas that work in the US or Amsterdam/Rotterdam probably won’t work great here. Doesn’t help that i can’t travel very far outside of Almelo either (no car)…
Heck, there’s probably no-one here who’s not too far/able to travel that’d be interested in doing stuff with a guy like me…? Being bi (but prefer cute guys) and probably a versatile top, kinda heavy but well-shaved (immune system disorder keeps body hair-free, so have to wear a wig but i look alot younger with wig+lack of body hair), a bit quiet/shy, with a interest in crossdressing (though a bit too personal to share pictures of openly), but friendly, reliable and open-minded (and probably also very boring), with a preference for twinks/CD/trans (but i’ll take what i can get), mostly just playing games on Steam/etc to kill the time.
Might as well ask. Kinda suprised there’s no dating/meetup topic on this forum, unless i missed it? You’d figure there would be demand for that, find likeminded people and all that. Well, i don’t have high hopes, but i might as well try, wonder if anyone else is having the same kinda problem?